Relatives' Heartache Regarding Shoreline Erosion Threatening Coastal Norfolk Graves
Families whose relatives buried in graves vulnerable to coastal erosion argue that indecision on how best to address the issue is causing them avoidable anguish about the final resting places of their loved ones.
A Looming Threat to Ancient Graveyards
The council have identified three church graveyards in the communities of Happisburgh, Trimingham, and Mundesley as being at risk of being consumed by the sea in the coming decades.
A recent report on the issue details a series of possible actions, from doing nothing to disinterring bodies and relocating them in more secure locations. Authorities say it is for the community to decide how to proceed.
“Right now we’re in limbo. It causes me distress. My parents wanted this to be their final resting place, but it won't be because of the encroaching sea.”
Estimates indicate at least a portion of one churchyard could be claimed by the waves in the next 80 years, but some locals fear it will happen much sooner. “I think it’s got under 20 years, if you consider what’s occurred in the last 30 years,” a farmer stated.
Troubled by the Past
One resident recalled a childhood visit to the neighbouring village of Eccles, which has largely disappeared into the water, including its place of worship and burial ground.
“You could see people’s bones,” she said. “Some have this romantic idea that people’s remains will just get carried away to the ocean. They won’t. People will take bones as souvenirs and go plundering graves in search of treasures. That is completely disrespectful.”
“I’m worried that the same thing that befell at Eccles will occur at Happisburgh and there’ll be skeletons on the shore. I would feel appalled by that.”
A Soldier's Grave in Peril
Further up the shoreline is situated the grave of a former paratrooper killed while serving overseas. His mother expressed she lost sleep after discovering her son’s grave might one day be relocated.
“It truly trouble me to consider this may not remain his permanent home,” she said. “To our family it’s an important site to visit.”
In her view, new burials should stop but says it is premature to disturb existing graves. “What I would choose for now is to do nothing and closely monitor, but an early decision must be made when a tipping point has been attained.”
Searching for Solutions and Clarity
The lack of agreement over when and how to tackle the problem has left grieving relatives feeling frustrated and anxious.
Some want more sea defences to delay the inevitable erosion and to allow burials to proceed for now. Others argue the time for moving graves is drawing near.
“The situation is very emotional,” said one relative. “The council’s report was thorough, but now there’s uncertainty about how it is implemented. And everybody is avoiding responsibility over who is accountable.”
A coastal manager confirmed the burial sites were under the care of the local diocese. “In the end it is up to them to decide the path to take. Our role is here to help support them through that process with communities.”
He added there was time to consider all the options. “We are talking many years before it starts to be lost.”
“There is no unified opinion on what should happen yet. We need good local conversations to discover the appropriate solutions for each community.”
The prospect of the loss of the historic sites was labeled one of “profound sorrow for the local community,” but faith leaders also spoke of a doctrine in life after death, providing a theological viewpoint on the physical disappearance of hallowed earth.